When contacting an escort
for the first time, key points to remember are:
Be polite and respectful,
escorts are professional people who take their work seriously. They
are looking for clients who are equally serious in their intention
to employ them and will be used to emails etc from 'time wasters',
so ensure that your email, text or telephone call does not suggest
you fall into this category!
If it is your first
time, then tell the escort. Escorts warmly welcome newcomers to
the industry and will ensure that you are put at your ease. If you
have any concerns then mention these too. Include practical details
in your email, your name, telephone number, times you would be available
and the location you prefer. You will also need to speak to the
escort before any booking can be agreed.
Above all, remember
that an escort is not someone you have to impress as you would a
conventional date, she is not a girlfriend. So you can be blatantly
honest about what you like sexually without fear of them being either
shocked or judgmental.
If an escort does
not think she would be suitable for you, she will tell you and will
not accept any further calls from you.
Emailing, Texting whatever you
do, do NOT send one line emails/text such as: 'nice tits, how much for
an hour? or: call and say 'can I come round right away, I have money,
what's your address ?' Also don't just txt saying 'U working'? You will
not receive a response and usually get 'blocked'. If you are genuine
and really want to make a booking. Then a better enquiry is: Hi, I loved
your pictures and am interested in seeing you for a one-hour appointment,
would you be available on such a day ... , thanks, or txt, 'I've seen
your website, I'd love to meet you, is this a good time to call you'
? You will almost certainly receive a reply.
Respect her need for
security. It should never be underestimated the risks that female escorts
are susceptible to in the course of their employment. The risks however
can be greatly reduced by escorts that follow safety precautions when
meeting new clients for the first time, the Internet has gone a long
way in helping her do this.
If you call the escort
by telephone using your landline or mobile do not withhold your number.
This shows the escort you are being secretive and could be viewed as
suspicious or devious, usually she will not answer your call. So if
you want to make a good impression and secure a booking be open about
who you are. Of course, there is a risk that some dubious escorts may
pursue you after a booking but this is very rare. Listen to her response
to your request for a booking, is she too quick to accept, making promises
that maybe are too good to be true? but if she seems friendly but a
bit cautious of you, stating what she requires from you to accept your
booking, then you should have made a good choice in an escort.
If you find an escort
you like by her own personal website, you will be able to see if she
is reputable and professional by her statements on her site or feedback
on others. This will show her standards and those she requires from
her clients. Be wary of large popular websites, just advertising escorts,
who often offer unrealistic fees and promises. Often showing encouraging
Feedback which can be easily falsified.
If you have made an enquiry
and spoken to an escort about her services but not made a booking, don't
expect her to continue to take repeat enquiry calls from you. If she
does not reply or answer your calls, then accept the fact you are not
the type of client she feels comfortable doing business with. Don't
waste your time repeatedly telephoning in the hope of just talking to
her again or expecting her to change her mind. Making repeat calls will
lead to your number being 'blocked'.
If an escort shows her
'availability times' on the Internet, do call within those hours, it
is pointless calling/texting her at 2 am for example, when she states
she only takes bookings up to 22:00 hours and expect her to be ready
to take your booking. Her phone will be switched off and you could get
'blocked' as a nuisance caller.
Bookings (Outcall) If your booking
is at a hotel, she will call the hotel to confirm your reservation or
ask to speak to you in your room, some may even require official identification
such as a driving licence/passport. In the UK it is not illegal to book
an escort to come to your hotel room but it is if she meets you in the
hotel bar first, this is classed as soliciting and is illegal. So don't
ask to meet her this way, she will come to your room and then, together,
you can both come down to the hotel bar or restaurant this is legal.
For instance, if an escort comes to your room for a short visit, leaves
and then goes alone into the bar for a drink afterwards, this could
also be construed as soliciting.
Fees if you pay escorts with a
card by phone, online or bank transfers. Make sure the escort/agency
are using a reputable, secure payment processing online site - easily
some escorts now request a small deposit from a new client when they
book, this is because a lot of clients cancel at the last minute, or
worse still do not even turn up for their booking. The escort will have
gone to a lot of trouble preparing herself and the accommodation she
is offering ready for the clients' visit and/or she has made arrangements
for her travel to visit you (Outcall). If you feel unable to pay a deposit
then do not try to book an escort who is requesting a deposit.
bookings usually starts with dinner at your hotel around 19:00
and then later, private time in your room. This can often be a good
time to experience any fantasy role play or other scenarios you may
want to try. Expect to pay and provide drinks/room service, often throughout
the night. In the morning offer her room service breakfast, don't expect
her to stay longer than the agreed time and she will want to leave the
Fees a larger deposit is paid online at the time of booking,
the remainder of the fee is paid online or in cash on her arrival at
expect an Overnight Booking if you have only paid for an hour but occasionally
an hours booking can run into an Overnight but this would only be agreed
once any additional fee is paid online for an independent escort or
paid via her agency. Never expect to pay for the overnight services
the next day, escorts always require payments at the start
of any booking, never, ever, expect or ask to pay her afterwards.
if an escort feels comfortable
with you she will relax and you will both have a great time together
but be aware that each escort will have taken her own safety measures
beforehand regarding her safety and security. These may not seem obvious
to you, that is the intention, measures will be in place behind the
scenes. If you have any reservations or concerns regarding an escorts
security arrangements, i.e. is there a driver parked nearby? then voice
these questions before you confirm a booking so a compromise can me
made where both parties feel happy and secure. Discretion is important
to both escorts and clients alike, it is the very backbone of the industry
and it would not survive without it!
not just for the escort but for you too. Usually an escort will cover
their own taxi fares, be aware of this at booking but you may be asked,
on her arrival to go out and pay a waiting taxi, beware
she is a stranger alone in your house? Give her the money to pay the
taxi and if you have quite a lot of cash in the house, keep it concealed
and out of sight also don't leave valuables in your bathroom, like you
watch. Expect an escort to take her bag with her to the bathroom - she
is wary of you too.
Rates & Charges
There is no fixed fee
rate within the escort industry but here is general guide:
and Major Cities: £200 to £350
per hour depending on service provided and status/appearance of escort.
Most escorts have a discounted rate for three to five hours consecutively
and overnight appointments range between £800 to £1500. Be aware some
agencies who advertise a much lower hourly rate will in fact expect
much more from you when the escort arrives. You will be asked for extra
money for extra services you'd thought were included, ie taxi's, condoms,
lubes etc. So the initial cheap £100 fee you've paid can easily
become £200 or more.
£150 to £200 per hour and overnight appointments £500 and £1000. Expenses
during the date, such as drinks, dinner, accommodation are payable by
Escorts will almost always
provide condoms, accessories, toys, punishment equipment, massage oil,
lubricants etc. Any toy that can be inserted should be new and in a
are Escort Fees so Expensive ?
Newcomers to the world
of escorting may initially consider an escorts hourly rate to be extremely
high, however - please consider the following to avoid common misconceptions
regarding an escorts income:
Escorts do not work
a 40 hour week (apart from the rare occasion of accompanying a client
on holiday). Competition is fierce and an escort is more likely
to work two or three appointments per week only, sometimes not even
as much as one!
There is no holiday
pay, no sick pay, a risk to personal health and the major risks
to personal safety. Often severe fatigue due to emotional 'giving'
has to be endured. Due to current public opinion, there is also
the risk of a damaged reputation if the escorts 'career' were exposed
to family and friends.
An escort needs to
have an extensive wardrobe of clothes, shoes and lingerie, as these
are not everyday clothing they can be very expensive. In addition,
other consumables such as make-up, perfume, stockings, condoms etc.
Other costs such as child care and travelling and hotel expenses
may have to be accounted for too.
An escort will often
also need to spend time and money on her physical appearance, personal
grooming and fitness are of course paramount for the work she is
doing. She will also often be leading a double life from her friends
and family and with that comes it's own stresses and sacrifices.
When you meet an
escort she will often have spent a couple of hours getting ready
beforehand, maybe travelling for an hour or longer, not forgetting
she also has a return journey to make later when she may be tired.
We asked three independent escorts that charge between £150 and
£300 per hour to calculate their 'actual' hourly rate when taking
all these things into account. The result was an average net earning
of between £25 and £35 per hour!
An escort has to
learn to be mentally prepared to meet a person that she may not
find physically or mentally attractive or could in fact be repulsed
by - she has to be charming and at her 'best' despite how she feels
Don't expect an Incall
(visiting the escort at her home, hotel or rented room) to be cheaper
than an Outcall (to your home/hotel). She is providing and paying
for all the accommodation - how much would a hotel room cost you?
She will offer a shower/bath, clean towels, refreshments etc. Also
she is giving you her 'address' and runs a risks of unwelcome interest
And yes, escorts
do actually pay tax, not surprising really, if she needs to show
income to get a loan to buy the new car ? Escorting is an accepted
discreet legal business and comes under the tax category of Entertainer.
To counter the above
an escort needs AN INCENTIVE - MONEY is
the sole incentive, and it has to be high, both in order for her to
continue in the trade and also to enjoy it! A lot of escorts do get
a personal, rewarding satisfaction in providing a good service and giving
pleasure to a man. She is temporarily renting herself and lovely body
to you, not 'selling herself' as it is sometimes believed. It brings
out the kind, caring, giving and loving part of her nature but only
limited to the time she spends with you. Don't expect that after one
meeting the escort will then, naturally become your girlfriend, that
is highly unlikely.
The most important thing
to consider and to ultimately accept and respect, is that you simply
cannot compare the value or worth of a conventional employee such as
a Personal Assistant or Personal Trainer with a Sex Worker that provides
not just personal but intimate, sexual services. The value has nothing
to do with what a client deems worthy of the services provided.
It is about what
the Sex Worker deems is worthy to her!
For each individual
this will be different and justifiable only to her.
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